Category Archives: Saving aLife

They Are Jewish Children….Foster a Child

They are Jewish Children

By Avrum Rosensweig

How would you describe your appreciation and respect for what orphanages do? What do you think when a friend fosters a child? My guess is you feel a deep respect for their initiative and are in awe of them. Somewhere, someplace you might feel compelled to do the same.

What do you consider when Judaism says: “A person is obligated to be careful in dealing with orphans and widows since their spirits are low — even if they are wealthy. And the Torah states: Every widow and orphan you shall not afflict’ (Exodus 22:21)?

Now think deeply about you as a kid, or what your child is like when he/she is scared. It moves you almost like no other image eh!? It’s not surprising. A scared and unsettled child touches the most sensitive place in our heart. Sometimes it reminds us of our own childhood loneliness.

Take all of these feelings and thoughts and act on them. You have an incredible opportunity to help a child – and it’s not complicated to get things going. The Jewish Family & Child Service (JF&CS) – a government-mandated children’s aid society – and an outstanding one at that, has in their jurisdiction, 93 Jewish children waiting to be fostered.

Here’s what they asked in a reason communiqué:

There are currently 93 Jewish children in the care of Jewish Family & Child Service. Unfortunately, that number only continues to increase. JF&CS is urging us, therefore, to find room in your home and your heart for a child who desperately needs support and shelter. We welcome Jewish foster parents of all levels of religious observance across the GTA. Remuneration: Minimum $1000 per month; Training will be provided. Contact the JF&CS Intake Department at 416.638.7800.

While these children’s are not orphans they cannot stay with their families. Being parentless must be brutal. May I suggest you call JF&CS. I know families who have, one who actually fostered over sixty Jewish children, and they advice it.

Sometimes their experience was magical. Sometime it didn’t work out. But they did it. They opened their hearts and homes. Give it a try. (JF&CS can hook you up with a foster family to get more information and see what it’s like).

A Jewish child is alone here in Toronto. Show them love. Hug them. Make them feel safe. Foster a Jewish child. Your children will grow. You will feel like an important part of our world. Think about what you’ll do for that child.

Once again, remember what you think about when you read about or hear of individuals doing incredible things for children? Do not discount ‘you’ within this formula. The only difference between those who foster and those who don’t is initiative, not will. I have heard from individuals that they truly want to assist children, but are not sure how to, or afraid that they might screw up.

Do something different. Open your heart and home, or at least call JF&CS and ask them for information. Share it with your family, your loved ones and give it a go-around. If it works it will make a world of difference to everyone. If it doesn’t – well you can try again later!

Yisha koach. Let’s foster all 93. Let’s make the Toronto Jewish community an example to other communities through the statement, ‘we leave no children behind.’ Please.

Let me know you have or are thinking about it. Ill encourage you. Email me at avrum@veahavta.org or drop by my blog at http://avrum.net. You have the resources, both materially and soulfully. Share your love. Do it. 416 638 7800.

They are Jewish children.

He Was a Shepherd. Avrum’s CJN Article January 26, 2011

http://www.cjnews.com/news/columnists/he-was-shepherd

Kibur Asres died last month at 61 in Bahir Dar, Ethiopia, and was buried in Addis Ababa. Thousands cried for him, Jewish and non-Jewish. We, in Toronto, were honoured to have known him.

Kibur was born on May 12, 1950, in Dabat, Ethiopia, to Qes Asres Yayehe and Amarach Denku. He was known to his close family as Wondemalem, translated as “my dearest brother.” According to his daughter, Beth, he was a wise, kind, generous, courageous and complex man.

Like many great leaders in training, Kibur spent his early years tending sheep. In the 1960s, he graduated, with honours, from Addis Ababa University with a degree in chemistry and mathematics and received his diploma from former Ethiopian emperor Haile Selassie.

Kibur spent the next eight years working as a professor. While teaching at Bahir Dar University, he met the lovely and gentle Walelign Fanta. They had three children, Joseph, Eyassu and Bethlehem (Beth).

In 1983, following the Ethiopian revolution and with a bounty on his head, Kibur and family fled to Montreal with the help of JIAS. They were among the first Beta Israel families to leave Ethiopia and arrive in Canada. He completed a master’s degree in social work at McGill University, while he continued working as a chemist and researcher for the Jewish General Hospital in Montreal, specializing in AIDS research.

Later, the family moved to Toronto and Kibur worked as a social worker with Jewish Family & Child. He was the president of the Toronto Ethiopian Association, and created a very successful parking-lot management enterprise called Globe Park Ltd. Kibur was also the dean of the Ottawa School of Business.

His true passion in life was community service. “Any person who had the opportunity to know him can attest to his genuine passion to improve the lives of all those he encountered,” Beth said.

Kibur was the founder of Horn Refugee Foundation, which assisted more than 3,000 African refugee claimants. He established the Re-Med Foundation, which provided medical supplies to underprivileged people internationally. He also created the Addis Hope Foundation, which assisted in community development in Ethiopia.

Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. said, “I submit to you that if a man has not discovered something that he will die for, he isn’t fit to live.” This was not the case with Kibur Asres. He helped dozens of Ethiopian Jews immigrate to Canada. He was an executive member of the Canadian Jewish Congress and served on its race relations committee. He travelled to Israel in 2000 on an exclusive trip for the national executive of the CJC. While there, he spoke with then-prime minister Ehud Barak about the plight of the Falash Mora.

Kibur was quoted saying, “Apart from the fact that not enough is being done to bring them to Israel, not enough is being done simply to keep them alive. They have so many relatives here [in Israel] and are going to come at some point, so why extend their pain and suffering.”

He is survived by his grandchildren, Rebecca, Abigail and Matthew; his siblings, Etzuvdink, Sara, Kokobie, Mulualem, Mintiwab, Addisalem and Paulos, and many nieces, nephews, cousins and lots of people he saved.

Kibur was a kind of Ethiopian royalty, in his own unique way. More than 1,000 people came to his shivah in Israel, and hundreds more in Toronto. He died young and was very fit to live. Zachreinu L’ivracha (Rest in Peace Righteous Man).

Darfur, Mia Farrow, Ve’ahavta

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Cycles of violence and apathy – Campaign of brutality in Darfur has lasted longer than the Holocaust itself
 
By Mia Farrow (Toronto Star,  November 4, 2009)
Cycles of violence and apathyCampaign of brutality in Darfur has lasted longer than the Holocaust itselfMia Farrow

As Canadians mark Holocaust Education Week, it is a sobering thought to realize that the genocide in Darfur has lasted longer than the Holocaust itself. And it continues unabated.

 The post-World War II cry of “Never Again” has tragically become “Again and Again.” But in today’s wired world, we cannot retreat behind claims that we don’t know what is happening.

 Here is what is happening: In 2003, the Sudanese government responded to rebel activity in the Darfur region by launching a brutal campaign of destruction upon the entire civilian population of Darfur. Using planes, government troops and a proxy militia called the Janjaweed, the violence has become genocide, with as many as 90 per cent of Darfur’s villages completely destroyed and hundreds of thousands of civilians murdered.

 More than a third of the population of Darfur has been displaced, and sexual assaults of women and girls are commonplace. Darfur is the worst humanitarian crisis in the world today. After six years what message have we sent to the people of Darfur? Only that they are completely dispensable.

 In 2004, I made the first of my 11 trips into the Darfur region and witnessed the terrible suffering. Ever since, I have worked to carry the words and images of the victims in and around Darfur, and to rouse international action to change this unacceptable situation.

On March 4, the International Criminal Court indicted Sudanese President Omar Al-Bashir for the murder, rape, plundering and displacement of millions in Darfur. He retaliated by expelling half the international aid agencies from the region.

These agencies had provided life-saving food, water, basic health care and sanitation to more than 2 million displaced people. Humanitarian operations in Darfur faced total collapse. But the world did nothing.

So on April 27 I began a fast of water only – in solidarity with the people of Darfur and as a personal expression of outrage at a world that is somehow able to stand by and watch innocent men, women and children needlessly die.

Today the worst of the outright killing is over in the Darfur region. But almost 3 million people are still languishing in refugee camps. Humanitarian access is limited, inconsistent or non-existent. More often than not, there is no medicine or doctors; the latrines are overflowing because they cannot be maintained; bore holes – the camps’ only water sources – break down and there is no one to fix them and no replacement parts.

Stockpiles of sorghum fester with maggots because there is no one to deliver the rations. While the long nightmare continues for the refugees, aid workers are doing their best to fill the gaps left by their expelled colleagues.

People are dying of disease and hunger. They long to return to their homelands. But they cannot leave the camps because there is no protection anywhere. Their beloved fields are ashes now, or occupied by Arab tribes that have come in from Sudan, Chad and from distant Mali and Niger.

Sadly, efforts by both the United States and others to reach a comprehensive peace agreement and end the humanitarian disaster in Darfur have failed. Together with paralyzing restrictions on relief agencies, the plight of displaced Darfurians, both in Sudan and neighbouring Chad, continues to deteriorate.

The hybrid peacekeeping mission of the United Nations and the African Union, known as UNAMID, remains understaffed, underequipped and generally ineffective. Rations of hope are meagre in Darfur, but along with the refugees we hope and we pray for peace.

Two Canadian Jewish groups are among the leaders in Darfur advocacy in Canada, and I am in Toronto this week to support their efforts. Ve’ahavta, a non-profit humanitarian organization, has sent pharmaceuticals and personnel to the region in cooperation with local and Israeli partners.

 The Canadian Jewish Congress, meanwhile, will be releasing an extraordinary handbook titled, Darfur: A Jewish Response that will engage Canada’s Jewish and non-Jewish communities in Darfur advocacy.

As Elie Wiesel wrote in amazement about the Holocaust: “The victims perished not only because of the killers, but also because of the apathy of the bystanders. What astonished us after the torment, after the tempest, was not that so many killers killed so many victims, but that so few cared about us at all.”

 Mia Farrow is a UNICEF Goodwill Ambassador and a leading Darfur activist. In 2008, she was selected by Time magazine as one of the most influential people in the world.

H1N1 – Is this a Crap Shoot or What?

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I have read at least three dozen articles, journal reviews etc. etc. etc. on H1N1. I have spoken to the most well respected doctors in the country, particularly those involved with infectious disease. I have done so, because like you, I have an invested interest to find out the truth. In my case, it’s far more than me; it’s my 3 1/2 year old son. What I have discovered to date is…..

….it’s a crap shoot as to whether you should or should not get the vaccine?

 I don’t have any intention of sending you any articles on the pros or cons of taking the vaccine, none what so ever. My question more so is, what are the tools you are using to decide?

I am presuming you are reading the same stuff, and speaking to the same doctors and ‘pundits’ as I am?

So at the end of the day when your head is so full of information about such things as the bizarre ingredients that go into the vaccine —

Rabbit brains? and monkey’s kidney? No, it must be a joke! And it says human aborted fetal tissue and sheep blood –

– and the scare tactics (could kill 200 million people) and the accusations (against everyone from the Rockefeller Foundation to governments and the media) –

…what is your way of determining what is best for you and/or your family?

I truly believe at this point jumping on a plane and traveling to Las Vegas, driving to a gambling joint and betting on numbers or cards, is pretty much the same as what we have in front of us. The question is, how do you get to ‘yes’ I will take the vaccine and get it to those I love and am responsible for, or ‘not a chance in hell’?

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